What Are the Etiquette Rules for a Maid of Honour?
Being asked to be Maid of Honour is, well, an honour — but it’s also a role with its own set of stylish expectations. So, what exactly is the etiquette when you’re the bride’s right-hand woman? Here’s the go-to guide for navigating the big duties (with even bigger fashion moments) like a total pro.
1. Be the Bride’s VIP Support
From the engagement to the aisle, you’re her go-to. This means helping her choose the dress, keeping everything on schedule, and softly steering things back to neutral if any pre-wedding hiccups arise. Keep her calm, her coffee full, and her veil fluffed.
2. Take the Lead on Planning
You’ll likely be the one coordinating the hens do and bridal shower — so embrace your inner event stylist (Google Sheets optional, good taste essential). Keep things on-brief and on-budget, with a healthy dose of fun.
3. Look the Part
Let’s talk fashion. If you’re part of the bridal party, dress code matters, so always align with the bride’s vision. Whether it’s chic neutrals or bold hues, make sure everyone looks coordinated. We make coordinating look easy — and it shows in every aisle-strut.
4. Speech Etiquette
If you’re giving a speech, keep it heartfelt, appropriate, and pithy. A funny quip? Yes. That brunch story post-hens? Maybe not. Avoid clichés and speak from the heart — your glamour and sincerity will shine through.
5. Manage the Little Things
Whether it’s carrying essentials in your clutch (hello, tissues and lip gloss!) or managing vendors while the bride’s in hair and makeup, you’re the behind-the-scenes MVP. Be present, poised, and practical.
6. Celebrate, Don’t Overshadow
This is her day. Be radiant, not distracting. If you’re the fashion-forward friend, lead with style but always support the bride’s vibe.
Final Thought: Etiquette isn’t about stuffiness — it’s about style, grace, and being the best support system a bride could ask for. Blending tradition with a touch of trend? That’s where magic happens (and Pinterest boards come to life).
Need help picking a colour scheme or finding a dress that nails your vision? We’ve got palette inspo on hand — and styles that are so good, the aisle might as well be a runway.
